Unholy Touch

I did it again; www.blooger.com. =.=

It's been quite a while since I realised how fun being in a boys school was. I know, the question on whether a same gender school or a co-ed school is better has been a very popular debate topic (and one which is known to always go nowhere). But yeah, speaking from someone who has been in both, maybe my judging will be a lot more rational.

Guys (or girls) might tell me that co-ed is better. Why? The relationships, etc, etc. True, you might have the opposite gender to chase around, that's why i ALWAYS stress on perspective. I don't think that way. I'd rather not burden myself over whether this girl like me, whether she has a crush on me, whether I should make a move. I know better. Anyway, back to same gender schools, if I could describe it in one word it would be: Fun. Real fun in a crazy way. I daresay more crazy than in a pure girl school. I've always asked, what happens if you get to a school full of testosterone?

And that's where I link it to the topic. This ain't no essay, but yeah. In a boy's school, it's very unholy there. LOL. In a dirty way.

You can't pass a day where there are non-obscenities in class, either it's just plain crude language or obscenities. But why? I can say because well, it's all dudes. Welcome to reality at a boy's school. What 'foul' thing you do can be understood, because they're boys too. Do some stupid thing, and instead of being given glares and stares, the whole class starts blurting out in laughter or either some idiot will yell some retort at you. Tell one a dirty thing, get one in return xD

You wouldn't want to know what I call my buds in school. Very naughty stuff.

But come on, it's all play. I'm not sure about you, but a lot of jokes are actually dirty, obscene ones. But here's the misconception: we are dirty minded.

Dirty minded? More like open minded! Okay, so we talk a deal about sexuality. Who doesn't? It's part and parcel of growing up. But we don't talk about DOING it, no, we make stupid jokes. Like what I like to threaten my friends with...example: "Sweep the class or not you will be less endowed by 1 cm (an altered clean version of what I say)"

By nature we teenagers are growing up, hence we tend to turn to more dirty jokes. Naughty stuff. Those who don't, well, maybe you haven't grown up. To me this is all a phase where teenagers go through. But there must be limits. Of course! I ALWAYS HAVE A LIMIT. I don't go simply tell other people about dirty stuff. Yes, because it might be disrespectful.

Respect for others. Yes, that's my limit. Okay, I have to admit. I'm a little dirty minded, but nobody's a clean slate. But you can't expect everyone to be so innocent. Yes, many people would find it very offending to be dirty, That's the norma of society. That's why I limit this open-mindedness to people to whom I can trust has that equal amount of crazyness and open-mindedness as me. When I wanna talk fun trash, I know who I can talk to. That's why to some people when i get excited I don't talk those stuff. Either the fact I'm afraid that you will be offended by what I say, or maybe you're just the opposite gender, and you will not understand my crazyness in this matter. It's awkward to say those stuff to girls as jokes. On a light note, yeah. It's not that I don't trust my friends who are girls with this open-mindedness, it's just I know it will be inappropriate to speak of those stuff to you, and I'm being more of a normal person to you. I can be serious, but everyone has a wild wacky, dirty side to them, its just how people express it.

In the end, I keep my dirtyness to my buds and myself..I'm not dirty minded to the extent of everything I do relates to it. There's a fine line between saying and doing. And in reality I just play along with the fact that people make jokes about them, please don't think of me as a corrupted soul, I'm just like you after all.

Friday, August 14, 2009