Re-presentation/ representation/ presentation/ whatever

Lately I've been very intrigued with this quote:

"Don't cry because it's over, be happy that it happened"

This means a lot...for everything...


Okay, presentation time:

If you weren't as blind that I think you are I think you would notice that I finally have a pseudonym for the author of the blog. Some of you might be familiar with the name, well for those people, YOU HAD IT COMING.

Why a girl's name? Oh, I don't know. Perhaps the same reason people name ships in the name of ladies. The S.S. Ruby. The R.M.S Helga. 0.0

Perhaps its the same reason why you call it two DAUGHTER cells, not two son cells.

It might be some sort of chauvinism, but I'm not sure which way. But just let things be. It's better to not oppose it :D Same way, aren't you glad that it is Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve?

Hmm, maybe I'll start naming the stuff around me with girls' names just to make my point. I've already named my yoyo as 'Esther'..maybe I'll name my handphone 'Jeanette' instead. ROFL. xDXDXD.

Why do I insist i put characteristics (just names =.=) of the opposite gender? I dunno. Lol. Even in game I wanna make my character female. Just for the fun of it. Haha. In reality children usually have a stronger affiliation and affection towards the parent of the opposite gender. Maybe it works these days too. It's all psychology.

Representation..many times I've thought before, what if there's someone that you THINK you know over the Net, really turns out to be someone else? Lets say you like this fella very much. You met on the Net and chat a lot over the net. Little would you know that that person is actually of the same gender. 0.0 Congratulations, you've just made yourself one step closer towards the confusion of your sexual orientation.

Ahh..the power of the Net. With it you can PRESENT yourself as anybody whom you want to be. What if I, who you chat with on the net, turns out to be someone else? What if it was a girl named Sophie? That's why playing with the Net is quite dangerous. You can't simply open up so freely..even JY once chatted with my mom instead of me :D

That's why in my opinion, hooking up with someone you meet on the Internet is plain stupid. Unless you know the person, in real life. Some people might say, "NO! I know her/him very well! I chat with her everyday!" Wake up, stupid. On the Internet even I can act as anything I want. I swear I can act as a chick and flirt with you and you wouldnt even know it's a 16 year old boy behind one end of the computer screen laughing so hard until he accidentally shuts down the computer. I can act cute, helpless, Ah-Lianish, act cool, all just to attract strangers.

I never will do such things with my friends. I hope they won't too. Unless they want to mess around, role play, etc. *smiles devilishly*

Oh yeah..I've seen some oddities about people writing descriptions about themselves before. Lets say you've added someone on Facebook..someone's self description actually tells a lot about himself/herself.

I absolutely hate descriptions like " I'm a normal dude/ I'm an ordinary girl living an ordinary life, typical mediocre,etc ,etc"

You're directly telling all of us that you're just plain boring. Come on, everyone's unique, has that special 'oomph' in them. Tell us why you're unique. Everyone is, only they're stupid enough to think they're like pixels in a computer, all same.

Another one I', annoyed with is: " I'm me'.

I am me.

That is so freaking obvious.

Okay, you say you are yourself. Can I say NO?

First impressions are important. But in the end it doesnt really matter. If you love someone just by first impressions, you are no better than an Ah Lian.

That's pretty much it..I've got a freaking sore throat and have a raspy voice..that's why I didn't dare to verbally greet Esther :D

I might sound like Marge from The Simpsons instead.

Friday, October 9, 2009